Today I’m looking at writing and platform building through a
Horton Hears a Who lens.
If you’ve read the Dr. Seuss classic or have seen the movie
you might imagine where I’m headed.
I’m a Who. A Who writer. Without a bestseller, not selling
millions, no lines waiting for me at book signings.
Years ago I asked myself what’s a Who to do in the megaphone
world of broadcast yourself until your fingers ache from tweeting and posting?
And naturally I concluded…
Make noise of course.
A constant tension exists in the publishing industry. Pour
yourself into your craft. Don’t get distracted. But as you improve your craft and
ward off distractions, build a rock solid platform.
In recent years, my inner introvert has endured
Olympic-equivalent training while exercising extroverted skills.
And at some point I became immersed in the tension, wading,
then dogpaddling, until I dove deep enough all sound began to mimic the murmuring
Charlie Brown waa waa—that under water half-registered reception of everything communicated
above the water’s surface.
I grappled with the fear that if I didn’t make noise I’d be
blown by the wind, disappearing altogether. Would anyone care about a Who?
Would I exist as a writer? Tree falls in the forest kind of thoughts.
Gradually, I’ve grown to embrace that being a Who isn’t
about the clatter. Surviving + thriving in this industry require me to trust
there are folks out there who believe in me. I believe in me.
~
I told myself to write this post as I would my last. Not
because that’s what it is—a finale but because sometimes I think about it…hitting
publish on my last post. I envision the exit from social media much like Jim
Carrey stepping off stage in The Truman
Show. No more tweeting, status updates, dipping my toe in or swan diving in
the social media pool. I’m not anti social media. Absolutely not. In fact,
while I was visiting my mom in Florida last week I missed connecting online.
However, it’s proven invaluable for me to evaluate how my
experience online has influenced me, and what the concept of platform building has
done to my passion for writing. For me, platform building has a tendency to
feel like blowing down a deck of cards only to rebuild it again.
During my time of reflection I slid inside Horton’s skin, took
a step back to watch Wendy Who blowing trumpets, smashing drums, while stomping
all over the Internet. I connected alright. I connected with such fervor there
were times I lost my voice in the process.
When I quieted I was surprised to learn a thing or two about
myself. My writing didn’t crumble. The seeds where I’d rooted myself weren’t
sent sailing haphazardly on the wind. Instead, I regained an appreciation of what
I value about social media. I also took an honest look at all the noise I was
making, measuring it, sampling it, and spitting out what was unnecessary.
I realized what I’m made of—the fight in me still strong.
One more thing settled into my Wendy Who bones. I don’t have
to scream for survival in publishing. People believe in both me and my writing.
My words speak loud enough on their own.
I need not worry whether or not people are promoting or
talking about Wendy Who. Because I know what it feels like to holler with such
throat-scratching intensity my blowfish cheeks redden and my purpose stretches
to the point it can get diluted and muddled. And thankfully, I’ve learned what
it feels like to float along content on the winds of change.
This Who has resolved to enjoy the process while letting my
writing reverberate noise. I’m reenergized to focus on my craft as I trust in
what’s to come.
Have you ever thought
about the influence social media (and/or platform building) has had on your
life? Ever feel like a Who, either afraid of being unheard or as though you could
be blown away to nothingness? What helps you to feel reaffirmed in your most
valued roles?
Thank you for
being a Horton in my life—for hearing me!
*photos by stock.XCHNG
I hear you--and I'm right there with you! I'm not a noisemaker. Not in life. Not on the internet. And even when I try to be, no one hears. And I've come to be ok with that. I "do" all the stuff, but only in a way that I can deal with and that is me. I try not to compare myself to others in this area, and I keep trying to write better books. So hang in there, Wendy, and do what you've been called to do! Enjoy the process. Enjoy your family. And walk each road in obedience and faith.
ReplyDeleteSuch an encouraging message, Anne, both in the relating & the prompting to enjoy the process & my fam. :)
DeleteI hear you, Wendy Who -- and not only do I hear you, I value what you have to say.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, sometimes I am afraid that what I have to say will go unheard. If that happens ... well, then so be it. I won't stop saying it. I believe in what I have to say. Sometimes the person who needs to hear it the most is me. (Funny thing, that.)
Thanks for the Horton love & yes, funny thing, that. ;-)
DeleteIt is a sea of noise, but this helps comfort me: "So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it." The important things I have to say, the ones God wants heard...they will be.
ReplyDeleteExcellent thought, Jessica. Thanks for the potent reminder.
DeleteI really like social media, but there are times when I fear I'm not doing enough. I think there just has to come a point where we realize we can't do it all. We can focus on what we like, what we're good at, and what's necessary--and let God do the rest. I don't want to talk just to hear myself talk, you know?
ReplyDeleteAnd like others have said, I hear you--and I value you! You were one of the first bloggers to take me under your wing and make me feel part of the crowd, and I cannot thank you enough for that.
Been like that since I was kid...always wanting everyone to feel included. You have a lot to offer, Lindsay! Glad my reaching out had impact.
DeleteJanna Who here, totally relating. Well said, Wendy. And yours is a helpful perspective to absorb, because I've been lost... but it doesn't mean my voice and writerly capabilities have diminished. I'm good enough, after all, and people like [my writing]. ;)
ReplyDeleteThanks for this post!
Thanks for swinging by, Janna. When I saw your update I couldn't resist. I seriously almost included that quote in this post.
DeleteWrite with passion!
Wendy, definitely hear you. There are those times when we, as authors, have been at this so long, we wonder if it's worth it. I do believe in the power of blogging, but I'm at the point where I'm ready to focus on the parts of my platform that come easiest--the FB and the twitter and Pinterest, and the joint blog I'm part of. That way, I have a bit more time to WRITE...hee. We can definitely spread ourselves too thin. All the best to you, Wendy Who! I'm a fan of you!
ReplyDeletePretty sure I'm in the King Solomon stage of writing, asking the deep, tough questions. Rounding this corner once again.
DeleteAs one who so enjoys "hearing" you, I'm glad you're sticking with it despite the "Is anybody out there listening?" days. I've certainly had the same, "Is this worth it?" feelings. But the thing that hits me over and over is how so often I'll write, let's say, a devotional blog post and at the end of it, I'll get that "This one was for you, Melissa" feeling. Like maybe God sparked the idea for a post because I'm the one who needed the thoughts--regardless of whether it garners views and comments. And the whole FB and Twitter thing...it can feel like it's so much about that dreaded platform. But as relationships develop and friendships deepen, I'm seeing the platform aspect slip from my worries and the blessings take top spot. It's been...fun.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how I first came across your blog, but I'm glad I did!
Thanks for that beautiful encouragement, Melissa. It's wild when I complete a novel and months later look back and say, "Oh, so that was that what that was all about." I hash through and wrestle with life stuff in my novels. Huh, go figure. :D
DeleteYou've done it! Your platform is *built* my friend! You have created a beautiful community, and a wonderful springboard from which you will launch your books. You're there!!
ReplyDeleteNancy!
DeleteSo cool to see you this morning at the coffee shop! I truly appreciate your kind words & am looking forward to watching your career take off!
Again, loved seeing you this gorgeous morning!
I believe in you, Wendy! You're a gifted, talented person who has blessed me countless times. I love how you string words together in such creative ways, often s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g me and opening my mind in bold new ways. I'm privileged to know you, my sister, my friend.
ReplyDeleteWow, Keli, you've been such a faithful encouragement in my life. I swear, you need to get an award for uplifting others! Love to s-t-r-e-t-c-h folks! Privileged to know you!
Delete"Ever feel like a Who, either afraid of being unheard or as though you could be blown away to nothingness? What helps you to feel reaffirmed in your most valued roles?"
ReplyDeleteGood questions. To the first one - sometimes, yes. There are so many other writers who commands so much more readership. If our little blogs that attract only a few readers were to end, would any body miss them? Same with our books. Sure, that thought occurs occasionally.
How do we feel reaffirmed? By knowing that at least some people are encouraged, built up, etc. There's only a few really big lakes, but their are lots of little ponds. But all those little ponds combine to play a big role.
Good post.
I grew up near a little pond and I did a ton of thinking out by it. So thinking of myself that way is quite endearing. Thanks for stopping by, Warren. Great to hear your thoughts and to have that refreshing reminder.
DeleteI thought to myself tonight: I haven't been to Wendy's site in FAAAARRRRR too long. I miss your thoughts, because they do move me. As I clicked over to your blog home, I was contemplating the fact that I've lost my fervor for social media. I used to faithfully visit almost forty sites a week...but for the past six months, I'm lucky if I get to five or six. I felt the same thing you describe here. What is the point of all this noise? As I pursue my dream to be published, and my family life becomes chaotic, the first thing to go is social media. But, as we've been told, it's so important. Where is the balance? How much is "enough"? I could keep going and going and going, and never hit the end of the social media world. So we have to draw the line somewhere. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy I stopped by. I'm so happy I'm not alone. :) The greatest gift of blogging is connecting with people who "get" me.
I'm so glad you stopped by! And I agree, the greatest gift really is connecting with people--people like you.
DeleteAmen and amen. Thank you for this post, Wendy who! I believe in you. Yes, yes,I do. Okay, no more Dr. Seuss. :)
ReplyDeleteLove you!