Sometimes I think if I were the only person on earth my
creative abilities would be off the charts. People have an uncanny way of
derailing our potential if we let them.
Today I’m throwing out five personality types that are sure
to deflate your creative genius. So be on the lookout and manage your time with
folks in your life who fit in these categories.
First up we have…
The Drain-O
They need you in the morning. They need you in the night.
They need you when they’re beaming. They need you after a fight. What’s the key
word in these sentences? Need. This individual will suck the creative juices
right out of you if you just give them the right size straw.
The Priority Crusher
“That can wait. There’s always tomorrow. Wait until you’re
inspired.” These three lines are familiar coming from the priority crusher.
They don’t see the value in expending your energy on a project. (Especially pay
attention to how this one will undermine your creative efforts if you don’t get
paid for your project or if your craft doesn’t rake in lots of affirmation from
others.)
The Doppelganger Assigner
This person makes it their job to compare your work to
others. It doesn’t matter if they’re doing so in a positive manner or not. If
there’s one thing I can’t emphasize enough about an untouchable creative spirit
it’s that every single one of us bring something wholly unique into this world.
Sure you can always find similarities between different artists, but someone
who is passionately creative will always strive to imbue their own personal
touch on everything they produce.
The Overly Critical
Nag
You won’t win. Your project will never be good enough.
You’ll never invest enough time, make enough money, create enough or clean your
toilet bowl with Q-tips the way they do. Be mindful not to spend too much time
with the person who is constantly finding ways to undervalue what you do
creatively. Too many hours spent with this personality might lead you to actually
second-guess what was more than fine to begin with. There are a whole slew of
reasons why people do this—criticize as though they rule the world and all
things in it—and most of them have very little to do with you or your creative
talent.
The Rainbow Rider
I love this one. Because they mean so well. But that still
doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be wise about what’s really going on. They love
you. They’ll call everything you do great because they want your approval, your
friendship, your attention. This individual isn’t invested in your work at all
and deep down really doesn’t care that much if you are either. They’ll
sugarcoat things, dismissing how difficult it can be to stay disciplined with a
project. They ride rainbows, look through rose-colored glasses, sweep all
things difficult under the rug, and ride rainbows always landing in a thick pot
gold, waving you along for the ride.
So, who have you been spending time with? Are they
encouraging your creativity or not?
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