“It’s a Mystery.” (Henslowe in Shakespeare in Love)
This industry is enigmatic to say the least. It takes perseverance, hard work, and a way with words to make it. About three years ago I finished my first women’s fiction manuscript, and soon after I queried it (I know, right?). I garnered interest from a wonderful agent. I botched up connecting with her on the technical side of things and to this day I blame my technical lameness. However, I wasn’t ready.
So I put in the work, read books on craft (see favorites below), and wrote until the cows came home (they’re still out wandering apparently). I wrote six more novels in fact. I finaled in a respected contest, sent my nonfiction and fiction work out in hopes to be published in anthologies and magazines. With over a dozen stories and essays published, I continued to study the industry and establish strong connections.
But I still say there’s no magic wand that will grant you an agent fairy or *poof* publication. I chose to keep walking through discouragement, doubt, and distractions.
And last week I secured an agent. My response to that first and foremost: It’s a mystery.
“Baby steps. Baby steps.” (Bob in What about Bob)
I took voracious notes on what worked for friends on the path ahead of me. I’ve always taken myself seriously as a writer. It’s my passion, but I also see pursuing publication as a career. I researched agents and narrowed down who I believed would advocate for me the best.
Whenever I communicated with said agents, I made sure I maintained a professional, yet Wendy-esque demeanor.
“Seat’s taken.” (kids on bus in Forrest Gump)
I witnessed good friends push through the ribbon at what seemed to be the end of the race. I cheered them on, learning how to jubilantly rejoice in their good news, while fighting off jealousy with jujitsu effort. I often felt like Forrest walking down the aisle of the bus. There were times I believed I’d never find a seat.
Remember Jenny? She offered Forrest a seat. They was like peas and carrots, Forrest and Jenny.
I met my carrot at a conference last year. A carrot who has a big group of peas, so she had to wait to take me on.
“Share the load.” (Samwise in The Lord of the Rings)The carrot agent had requested a full at the ACFW conference last year and we clicked, I mean we just clicked. I liked her. I’d been reading her blog for years and I trusted her in my gut (this is huge for me).
And in the process of waiting for feedback from her, I received unbelievable support from dear friends. This encouragement carried me. I received beautiful cards urging me to keep at it (must have been one a month from Keli Gwyn—thanks, Keli!) Thanks to everyone who provided encouragement!
I even had five friends (some writers, some not) tell me they dreamed I signed with carrot agent (this is a funny tag I’ve given her). I only dreamed about her once and we weren’t signing contracts, we were hiking together.
God works in mysterious ways. I usually take dreams and prophetic statements with a grain of salt, discerning them carefully, but, you betcha, I’m glad I wrote it all down because hindsight, I see God’s hand in it all.
“Call me. Da da da da da da, call moi.” (Harry in When Harry Met Sally)
I kept the agent’s written request in my wallet. It reminded me of my dream and how I needed to work for it. I kept an ornament that says, “The world is waiting to hear your story” hanging above my kitchen sink. Yet another reminder. I was surrounded by reminders, but entrenched in the thick of waiting. Time ticked by. Sporadically the agent and I got in touch with one another, sometimes with industry related news, sometimes not. My trust for her grew.
But there were days I cried. Yep, I can be that emotional woman who lets this business get to me. Surprise, I’m human!
Then a genuine, loving friend offered to read the work I’d submitted. She blew me away with her impression and passed it along to carrot agent. Another friend surprised me by offering kind words about me as well.
I felt like Harry in a scene from When Harry Met Sally. I even linked Billy Crystal singing on Youtube to another agent’s post as a response to how I deal with the wait. Humor has often been my golden ticket. I did anything to keep sane, anything that involved humor.
I was selective when I decided to put a few feelers out there. I received positive feedback and another request for a full. Eventually that request transpired into a kind (super kind) pass. I had yet to secure my agent match.
I waited for the call, and during the wait I discovered a boatload about what I value, how devoted I was to pursuing publication, and all kinds of good spiritual stuff that kept me humble.
“Carpe diem. Seize the day…Make your lives extraordinary.” (John Keating in Dead Poets Society)
So this is what I learned to do…to soak up each and every day, even those waiting days when I had no idea if my time would come. I continued to love writing while loving on my husband and children. I kept in touch with the agent, delighting in the way she communicated with me.
And then a day of all days came to seize. I got…the email! The rest of last Friday is a blur. I remember responding with an overwhelming yes to her email and phoning loved ones. I recall my children running outside yelling, “Our mom got an agent” (only to walk outside to discover my 4yo was naked at the time…nice).
This is my movie quote play by play how I became Rachelle Gardner’s client. I’m where I’m supposed to be. It took the time it was supposed to take.
And even though it’s a mystery, there really is no place like home! ;)
*favorite books on writing I’ve read (or reread) within the past five years include anything written by James Scott Bell, with The Art of War for Writers as my favorite of his, Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, On Writing by Stephen King, Write Away by Elizabeth George, and Techniques for the Selling Writer by Dwight V. Swain
**photos by flickr
**photos by flickr
Woohooo!!! I absolutely love this Wendy. So you, so fun, so poignant! Last Friday was a great, great, great day!ReplyDelete
Congrats, again, my beautiful friend!ReplyDelete
Loved the movie quoting your way through agenthood.
Congrats! That's so awesome! :)ReplyDelete
I'm so happy for you Wendy! And I can't wait to read your book. (You have to admit that your 4-year-old's enthusiasm is admirable! LOL)ReplyDelete
CONGRATS! Wonderful news. Loved how you told your story. :)ReplyDelete
What a journey you've been on! I'm so happy that you got the carrot agent you've been praying for. Huge congratulations, Wendy! :)ReplyDelete
Way to go, Girl!!! Congratulations, as always your post is uniquely you!! Love it!ReplyDelete
Congratulations! I love the movie quotes, and this post is so very encouraging. Thanks for sharing. Keep us posted as you continue on the journey. :)ReplyDelete
Great story and congrats again! So excited for you!!! :O)ReplyDelete
Congratulations, Wendy! What a journey!ReplyDelete
Congratulations Wendy! So excited for you! :)ReplyDelete
I LOVE your clever tie-ins to movie quotes. Awesome! Congratulations!!!ReplyDelete
Congrats!!! I'm so excited for you!ReplyDelete
I love that Rachelle is your carrot agent but I can't help but think of Don Miller's parable of the sexy carrot. I will never be able to think of Rachelle again without bringing to mind a boa and a distinct orangish hue. :^)ReplyDelete
I'm so excited for this next leg of your journey, Wendy. Keep writing and keep dreaming!
So happy for you! Rachelle is awesome!ReplyDelete
I read every word, every quote, with a smile on my face. Absolutely delighted for you, my friend. Absolutely delighted.ReplyDelete
Yipppppeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!! :) :) :)ReplyDelete
I knew it!!!! I knew this was your big news!!! Congralations, and my kids did the naked thing when they were four, too. I love that!ReplyDelete
So so so happy for you, my dear. God is faithful. Love the movie quotes!
I mean: congratulations. I was in a hurry.ReplyDelete
So over the moon excited for you, Wendy!ReplyDelete
Congratulations! And, I'm a huge fan of anyone who speaks movie!ReplyDelete
I'm so proud of you for getting through that wait. It takes a strong woman to do that--though it's hard to understand the feeling until it has happened to you. And my wait did not even compare to yours!ReplyDelete
Much love and I'll be watching with anticipation for the next steps!
Whoohooo!!! Woot! Woot! and a big ol' SQUEEEEEE!!!!!!ReplyDelete
Wendy, I'm so happy for you. You've worked so hard and waited so long. I'm so stinkin' excited! :)
Wendy, I'm so happy for you! I loved your story and how you shared it. Beautiful to see how you worked to keep God's perspective in the waiting time. Looking forward to reading your book!ReplyDelete
Fantastic call story! I'm so happy I knew you from the beginning of your journey!ReplyDelete
Yay! Yay!!! Happy (not naked) dancing all over the place for you!!ReplyDelete
Love how you tied it all together with movie quotes, too. You're an amazing writer and this is SO deserved! I can't wait to see what the rest of your journey brings you!!
Congratulations! So very cool. And wow . . . inspiring to know that sometimes things just have to marinate before they click. :)ReplyDelete
Oh Wendy, this is wonderful, just wonderful -- I have the goosebumps (and I already knew...but just reading the play-by-play is so awesome!). You are such an incredible trooper, never giving up, moving toward the goal with perseverance and determination.ReplyDelete
What's more, you just shine blessings and radiance onto all of us who come in contact with you -- you are a genuinely generous and encouraging person, and it is an absolute joy to know you!
Congratulations, dear friend. I can't think of a more deserving person!
A big congratulations to you, Wendy!ReplyDelete
What an inspiring story you leave us with.
Wendy, I love learning more about your story. You blow me away with your patience, your beauty, your loving spirit! This came as no surprise in the least to me, I was just waiting for the day!ReplyDelete
CONGRATULATIONS lady! I've got a hug waiting for you in just a few days. :D
Congratulations, Wendy! I'm so excited for you. Thanks for sharing your journey too - the waiting seems more bearable when I know others have done it too. :)ReplyDelete
This was great! And you already know how happy I am for you, but I'll say it again. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!ReplyDelete
How I have waited for this day, Wendy. I just knew it would come, and this is one time I'm sooo glad I was right.ReplyDelete
Mega congratulations to you, my agency mate and my friend!!!
Just a warning. When you hear someone squealing at the ACFW conference and see a short blur coming your way, brace yourself. That will be me ready to smother you in a lung-crushing hug.
I love your post. It's so Wendy-esque. I grinned my way through it, that same Cheshire cat grin I've been wearing each time I think of your good news.
I was wondering how this announcement would be made in Wendy's way. Terrific! You're so creative. Is it any wonder Rachelle said yes? Congrats again and best wishes on the next steps.ReplyDelete
I should have known this announcement would be delivered in Wendy fashion, and you didn't disappoint, my friend! I'm so, so, so excited for you! Who would have known two nervous newbies at last year's conference would be where we are? Lots of hugs to you!ReplyDelete
Oh, Wendy, I'm so, so, so thrilled for you!! This is just awesome. Congratulations, my friend!ReplyDelete
Awesome post! I love the way you laid out your adventure. Thank you and congratulations!!! =)ReplyDelete
What a fantastic post! I love how you described the different journeys through finding an agent. It only gets better from here--and I can't wait for a post like this when you announce your book deal!ReplyDelete
So glad for you. Congratulations!ReplyDelete
My path has led through a side door (as you know) rather than directly into an agent's office. But I'm still here writing and watching.
I hope you all know how deeply moved I am by these comments. It's been a wild ride, that much is true.ReplyDelete
Your support matters to me!
Hi Wendy -ReplyDelete
I love the way you told this story - so original!
Congratulations. You've got one of the most respected agents in your corner.
That's such awesome news! Congratulations :)ReplyDelete
I wish you all the best in your journey.
I love how God works, makes us wait, trains us... makes us the best we can be... and then surprises us with more than we ever could have asked for.
Looking forward to reading about your future progress.
That's wonderful! I love how you see how God's hand was working for you the entire time.ReplyDelete
Hahaahaa, naked 4 yr olds...been there.ReplyDelete
Congrats again on your amazing news! I can't say that I was surprised. ;-)